The Best Way Save Marriage

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Stop being too sensitive. If your partner makes a critical remark, don't jump on it and start an argument. Let it slide. Always being defensive and easily hurt are a sure way of causing trouble in you. By not taking offense and letting a few remarks go unanswered, the other party feels ashamed to have said the remark. The next time you make a remark that might be taken as hurtful, your mate might surprise you by letting it slide.

The best way to save marriage is for you to be the one to start using this procedure. It takes two to argue and if you refuse to be a part of the argument, there is not much fuel to keep it going. This can sometimes cause your partner to take a look at the way they are acting and join you in the peace movement.

You don't have to be right every time. The little things that in the end don't count for much is the cause of most problems. When you look back later on most bickering, you see how silly and meaningless it was. The best way to save marriage is to not sweat the small things. If your partner thinks a movie or t.v. show was good and you didn't, let them have their opinion. After all, what difference does it make?

Remember when you were dating and everything was new and exciting. Your partner could do no wrong in your eyes. You always tried to be interesting and in a good mood. But, after the dating period and the settling in begins, things become routine and humdrum. We let the magic slip away and stop dating. This is when the trouble begins. You feel you can say things and find fault with your mate that you never would have thought of doing when you were dating.

The best way to save marriage is to turn a new page and start dating again, or at least doing the things you did when you were dating. Be interesting and interested again. What attracted you to this person and what attracted them to you? A relationship requires constant work and attention by all parties involved or it becomes stagnant and dies.

If you love your partner, show it in little ways, everyday. It will make your relationship stronger and you will feel better about it also. When your partner is happy and contented you feel the same way. Love begets love. A favor is generally returned. Be sure to hug your partner often and say I love you.

Nothing shows affection more than consideration. Do little things for your partner that you know they don't like to do and do it without making a big show of it. The best way to save your marriage is to always let your partner know how much the marriage means to you and how happy you are to be with them.

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This article was published on 2010/04/01
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